Friday, September 28, 2007

Beautiful Girl

Edited Sunday - 9/30 -- Proof that there was indeed cake! (And Presents)

Today this sweet (at least sometimes) little girl turns three years old! She was unplanned but never unwanted. Rob's Grandmother was dying of cancer when we found out we were pregnant with Abby and the timing seemed very, very wrong. But turns out she was really a blessing. She has helped both of her Grandmothers through some very difficult times simply by "needing" them to care for her.

I will never forget the look on Rob's when the sonogram tech told us we were having a girl! He was convinced it would be another boy. He was in shock for a good two hours.... not disappointed, shocked. The whole dating thing terrified him even then. To say Abby has him wrapped around her little finger would be an understatement. He is the last one to scold her and the first one to defend her. That is a Daddy's job, after all.

This girl is the youngest grandchild (of 11 on my side) and really rules the cousin roost. She gets away with everything.... probably because the grandparents know she is the last one and gets anything she wants with a sad look and a sweet "puh leeeze". The lisp doesn't hurt when it comes to the cute factor.

Abby was a sweet baby.... she loved to eat... as you can tell by the smiling, chubby baby picture. But started sleeping all night at just a few months old. But those easy newborn days were NOT a sign of things to come. Our sweet baby turned into a tyrant at about 6 months old. She hit her brother for taking one of her toys and hasn't looked back since. She blames him if she runs into the table (J.T. hit me!) even if he isn't in the room. She also blames her PaPa for things she's done.... we don't know why. He was a mischievous child though, so perhaps she senses a kindred spirit.

She keeps us on our toes with her penchant for drawing on anything that isn't moving with anything that can possibly leave any type of mark (pencils, pens, markers, crayons, soap, chalk, fingernails, etc.). Her affinity for danger (climbing, jumping, leaping and exploring) we're hoping she will outgrow. She says "No" frequently but never seems to understand it when it is directed AT her. She is the first one to shout out the answers during circle time at preschool. We actually have to arrive a few minutes late so she can be the center of attention with both classmates and teachers. She is a diva. But she's our diva and we love her very much.

Happy Birthday Abigail. We will eat cake!


Rob said...

Happy Birthday Abigirl. Daddy Loves You.

To the Confederation of Aussie Sheila Bloggers, get Melinda to tell you how each of us reacted when we found out "we" were pregnant (as it turned out only Melinda was pregnant, I was just late.) ;-) I don't have much that I can hold over Melinda's head but this is one of them.

Angel said...

Happy Birthday Abby!! I hope you had a great day. I sure would have liked to have some of your cake. Dora told me to tell you Hey!

tracey petersen said...

Happy, happy day to your little girl! Enjoy that cake!

PS Rob I hope that you pronounce that word like this 'ozzie', not 'orssssie' like we hear so many times from your fellow US residents.

precious pink pumps said...

Happy birthday Abby the diva! Be sure to get Daddy to get all the pink glitzy girl stuff you need!

M said...

Happy Birthday Abigail!

caramaena said...

Happy belated birthday Abigail!

Can I be in the Confederation? I want to hear the story :)

Melinda said...

Okay, Okay, Okay.

When we first found out I was pregnant. I cried. And they were not tears of joy.... at first. It only took me a few hours, maybe one day to embrace the idea of a new baby. But before that.... I was a little shocked. Since Rob has very, very little ammunition to use against me, he occasionally brings up the fact that he was thrilled from the get-go and I was not so much. But we are going to FORGET THIS. Remember, Rob?

bluemountainsmary said...

A belated happy birthday to your beautiful three year old.

At the moment I am simply enjoying margot (tho' she can drive me crazy at times) because if she is like me her loveliness will turn to evil hormonal nastiness when she is about 15..

Stomper Girl said...

Happy Birthday to your Abigail. Three, huh? A beautiful age, in between all the hard work! She has evidently grown from a beautiful baby to a beautiful little girl. Well done you and Rob.

meggie said...

Belated Happies to your Abigail! She is just beautiful!
I always feel babies & small children have the power to heal many hurts & wounds. I so badly wanted another grandchild when my mother died. He came a lot later, but Gosh I love him!!

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