Saturday, December 4, 2010

Building

It has been building, rising, creeping and now boiling over.

In their defense, we've had a hectic fortnight of holiday, trip to Myrtle Beach (five and a half hours in the car each way), rehearsals, recitals, practices, homework, testing, etc.

But today, they were cranky and defiant to the point that it resulted in a one week ban of use by either child of anything that requires electricity in any form. Be it outlet or battery, computer, DVD, television, video game, etc.

I think they'll be the better for it. We have let technology overtake us little by little and have discovered that we need to launch a counter-offensive. We are instituting a sharing policy of electronics with time limits strictly enforced.

So far we have played monopoly, visited the Wildlife Center at Georgia Southern, played outside far longer than usual, despite cool temperatures, and done some toy sorting in anticipation of Christmas.

More deep thoughts on this later. For now I am emotionally drained. It is very, very important to me for my children to appreciate that they are very lucky and to treat people with respect. Our meltdown (which involved both children AND parents) was a huge revelation to me that we have some work to do on that front. I don't mean to say that I want them to be pious and meek and let themselves get walked on or to crush their spirits under the weight of rules and regulations, but that we have to achieve a balance between good self-esteem and compassion and respect.

3 comments:

Stomper Girl said...

Wow, good for you! I can't imagine turning the electronics off although I'm sure it'd be good or us!

I'm big on kids being respectful _ I quite often say "don't speak to me like that" and am delighted to find the kids occasionally use it on others who have not spoken politely to them.

Aunty Evil said...

Hang in there, look at the bright side, the teenage years aren't that far away! :) :)

rhubarbwhine said...

Yep, end of year stress, I am sure it affects all of us. I am like you, big on manners, respect and civility. Onya, I say! xx (A bit of Aussie there for you)

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